try to avoid those subjects at all costs. fear of rejection. i was thinking along of the lines of
"you know I care about you more than anything; I would really like to raise the baby together, regardless of our status"
BC
Just a thought, but if you are fearing rejection, this is possibly setting you up for a big one... The last phrase says you are ok with whatever happens - is this really the message you want to pass on?
I know you are reeling right now, so please do not take the comments as a slam - just don't want you to set yourself up for a big fall.
Take care.
LIS
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