BLAH, BLAH, BLAH.......... He was actually nice and didn't get defensive. I just don't see why he gets a private call. The only times I have gotten private calls are from the police dept. I confronted him and in the past he used to get very angry , this time he wasn't. I just long to feel like I can have COMPLETE FAITH IN HIM , LIKE HE IS AN OPEN BOOK. I long for the day when I don't have to be haunted by OW fears.... Ali