Cinders.....I totally agree with you....our children are the ones suffering more than we are....they don't know how to cope...even the older ones....my girls just can't stand to be around their dad....my 16 year old said last week that she hates cheaters as she was sobbing from a fight with a friend...they don't know what to do....my 11 year old played my H and I against each other the other night....only so he could have my H here just a little longer....I didnt realize this til later when my S11 asked, "mom are you mad at me"...to which I responded...."son I love you, I could never be mad at you"...and he teared up....My H and I both love our children....I just wish my H loved me..... \:\( It definately tears at your heart....you just wish you could take away all the pain.....

Last edited by Treese; 09/06/08 12:49 PM.
Treese

H 49
M 45
D 23, D17, S12
M 25 T 31
01/07 OW H at my door w/proof
Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07
Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass,
Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9
11/08 pos.paternity