That makes alot of sense. In retrospect, I never really felt that W worked very hard to get me to WANT her back. She did not have to. In my case anyway, my W had the balance of power since she dropped the bomb. Actually she has had it for the last 2 - 3 years (ever since her businesss took off). Thanks for the nice words....I know that something was broken a year or so ago and once that happened there is nothing I can do. In an e-mail she sent me yesterday asking to meet to iron some things out like the house, joint accounts etc., she ends the e-mail with: I know you have a good support group and it reassures me....I want you to know that I will always be there for you. Also, at the beginning she writes that for D7's sake (and that is what she hopes and wants) that we should remain close friends. I do not want to spend my energy disecting these statements (that is what we tend to do at the beginning). To me although I found that nice of her to say the words were empty. Maybe I will feel differently in the future but close friends and i will always be there for you just do not jive with recent events. I am scheduled to call W this morning to arrange pickup of D7...I miss her and I need to tell her why daddy left and hug her ALOT.
