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Re: Acceptance.... Cinderellaman #1578437 09/02/08 06:26 PM
Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 3,313 M missmyfriend Member
missmyfriend Member M Joined: Feb 2007 Posts: 3,313	HUGS!!!!! Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God

Re: Acceptance.... Cinderellaman #1578684 09/02/08 09:50 PM
Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334 T Truelove Member
Truelove Member T Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334	Hi Cinders, Just wanted to say hi. Have a lovely Wednesday. (((HUGS)))xxx

Re: Acceptance.... Truelove #1578690 09/02/08 09:55 PM
Joined: Jan 2000 Posts: 28,358 Likes: 167 job Member
job Member Joined: Jan 2000 Posts: 28,358 Likes: 167	Hope today is a far better day for you. Go out and enjoy a cup of coffee at a coffee bar and just relax (by yourself). Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.

Re: Acceptance.... job #1579590 09/03/08 06:17 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791 Cinderellaman OP Member
OP Cinderellaman Member Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791	Having much better days thank you ! Not talked to H. No need to actually. Went to my friend's house this morning, they are renovating their kitchen ! A whole wall was taken out !!!! WOW ! Then had coffee with another friend, did some housework, picked the kids up from school, had the electrician over for a few small things, then off to hockey practice, stayed there till 5pm waiting for all the kids to have their practice and then took a little kid home and came back home to cook dinner ! My days are pretty full that way ! Off to bed early, as I will be joining 2 friends tomorrow, they are going shopping for clothes for their kids...they always spend HUGE amounts of money ! I do not intend to buy the kids anything, my financial situation is like theirs ! But it shall be fun, just tagging along ! A little nervous as we will go into town, and you never know, I might just run into H or ow there.... HOPE NOT ! Hope you are all doing well ! Love you all so very much ! xxx Love Cinders xxx "In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus http://miesblogspot.blogspot.com/

Re: Acceptance.... Cinderellaman #1579702 09/03/08 08:04 PM
Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334 T Truelove Member
Truelove Member T Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334	Hi Sweety, Glad you are feeling much better these days. It will do you good to join your two friends. Have fun. (((HUGS))) xxx

Re: Acceptance.... Truelove #1580438 09/04/08 03:28 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791 Cinderellaman OP Member
OP Cinderellaman Member Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791	Had a great day shopping. Got the kids some warm sweaters...my friends really shopped till they dropped ! $;\)$ H came by after he picked the kids up from school...his mood was not fantastic. I just ignored it, and stood my ground. I don't like it when he is like this to me. I know it shouldn't matter, but it does... I'll be going to D9's parent teacher evening tonight, to meet her new teacher and hear what they will be doing this year. Should be fun as all the parents will be there ! Not sure if H will be there. He knows about it...but I don't know if he'll come. Does not really matter, I think I prefer it if he doesn't. He told me he will not be playing hockey anymore this year. That was great news, as I was afraid, he would start taking ow to the practices ! Thank God for this. Kids are off with H for the night. I allready miss them.... Okido, off to make myself some soup ! Take care xxx Love Cinders xxx "In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus http://miesblogspot.blogspot.com/

Re: Acceptance.... Cinderellaman #1580576 09/04/08 05:09 PM
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butterflymom Member B Joined: Apr 2007 Posts: 1,526 with my favoriteweirdo	Just dropping by to let you know I'm keeping up with you. Not much time to post lately. Very busy at work. Email if you need anything. I think you're doing great! $\:\)$ BFM There is only one person who could ever make you happy, and that person is you. David Burns, Intimate Connections

Re: Acceptance.... butterflymom #1580935 09/04/08 10:37 PM
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yellowrose Member Y Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 6,042 texas	Just popping in to say "hi" and tell you how great you are doing!!! Y

Re: Acceptance.... Cinderellaman #1582706 09/06/08 10:38 AM
Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334 T Truelove Member
Truelove Member T Joined: Dec 2005 Posts: 3,334	Hi Sweety, Just wanted to say Hi and wishing you a lovely week-end. (((HUGS))) xxx

Re: Acceptance.... Truelove #1582723 09/06/08 11:59 AM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791 Cinderellaman OP Member
OP Cinderellaman Member Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,791	$\:\($ H was coach to D7's hockey team....D7 was brought home by him and she was very clingy to him and crying...my heart broke once again. You live and think all is going fine and no problems whatsoever...and then this happens. I feel so terrible for our kids. NO one has ever asked THEM how they feel and how they are coping ! They are the victims in this and it is a SAD thing !!!! Love Cinders xxx "In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus http://miesblogspot.blogspot.com/

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