T wrote such an excellent post- I'm not sure how much I can add, except to reiterate not ASS-U-ME-ing anything, and having NO EXPECTATIONS (at all of any kind). I know it's hard- being in touch makes expectations more difficult to avoid. I struggle with it myself.
Did you decide to book a DB Coaching session? I'd highly recommend it.
Give him time. This must be as tricky for him as for you (if not a bit more tricky for him because he has to admit he made a mistake and constantly face his guilt for what he's done). Compliment and support him; hard work for you, but he probably is feeling a bit inadequate by comparison to your gorgeous together hot self (he photographed fireworks by himself?!!).
I would SO love it if you did introduce me to your H as the English girls of socks and fake nipples, although I'm not entirely sure I want that as part of my reputation forever!
