Sandi - I agree with sgctxok. I have to thank you tremendously for replying to my post and sharing your perspective and thoughts. It has really helped me. I hope everything is going well with you and I hope you are continuing to feel progress in your relationship. I so desparately want my W to come back to me, but hearing how you feel, and how hard it is, makes me realize that I need to continue to be patient. You are a Godsend to many people on this site, and I want you to feel wonderful about that. You are making a difference in this world!

We'll talk soon.


Me-44, W-45
Together-25 yrs, Married-21 yrs
D-17,S-15,D-13,S-10
ILYBNILWY Bomb: 10/2007
Status: Divorce Mediation, Still under same roof
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