I'm a rescuer, always have been & still do it to some extent. But a valuable lesson I learned,a log time ago, is you cannot help someone if they do not want to help themselves. For me it has become a rule I live by. Good or bad .... it is my way ...


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)