Well found out some interesting news today, S called to tell me he was going to his dads' place tomorrow, thought it was odd, he dosnt go there and why? He said he was going to help his dad move- I figured he and OW ( or whoever she is) were moving to a bigger place---
S then said- Dads moving alone,he and L broke up. whooooo I was surprised as they just got back from their fab trip to Cabo---
S went on to tell me his dad told him, not many details but that it had something to do w/ a talk they had 6 months ago--when ex told S he knew he was a AxxHxxx- and that he just couldnt settle down w/ anyone for long ( ya think??)Ry asked his dad if L knew he wasnt serious about her, ex said, dunno, but she best not, cause if i couldnt love your mom , i dont think i can really love. Not sure to this day if that was a compliment or not lol
Ry told him again the other night he needs to stop hurting everyone, grow up -- if he just cant commit be upfront and stop stringing people along ,that he has hurt mom and now L. ( not to be picky but cant quite compare a 18 yr marriage and a 3 yr R) anywayyyyyy- Ry said he was afraid he'd be like his dad, and I assured him he already was not! and partly his dads upbringing may have a lot to do w/ his aloofness and lack of feelings for anyone but himself and S was brought up different
He told his dad he really had issues and was going to be lonely before long.
So there ya go,the bloom is off the rose, there will be another one to come along and in fact I am sure there prob is and she found out.
know what?? I am sooooo glad I am out of that madness and I am soooo happy I have gotten a little verification!yahaawww!!
ok typing on this laptop on my bed is not easy!
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