Rubber band effect isn't in a book, just some regular guy said it. You want proof, look at some of the people that saved their M's. It wasn't until they let go.....
I agree with the psychobabble opinion. These books have you saying stuff like I understand that you are leaving the relationship, and I feel that you should know that I would prefer that....blah blah blah Who talks like that besides Fraiser Craine? You'll freak people out.
But, you aren't going to accomplish anything until you settle down a bit. Until you let her go and realize that the only relationship you NEED, is your relationship with the Lord. Get the pressure off her, and you will see changes.
I don't care what you think, as long as it's about me.
