Bridge, I totally get po'd when H tries to blame it all on "outside stuff". C told me today, "it doesn't matter what H says, does or believes"...... what matters is what I believe. I validate my own reality.

Thanks for being such a great friend ! Thanks for the message. I'm so sorry you were shredded yesterday. I hope you had a better day today.

Hugs

M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.