I can always count on you to be here for me!!!! I'm trying very hard to stay strong. This is a very hard weekend for me. In 1994 my brother died on Sept. 3rd & was buried on my Mom's birthday, Sept. 5th. Then of all times, my H told me on Sept. 6th that he wanted a D. So you see why I'm having such a hard time!!!

To show you the strength of my Mom, she was really upset when he died & she knew he would be buried on her b'day. She made the comment right after he died that she never thought it would happen on her b'day. My brother was CP & lived to be almost 36 years old & my parents cared for him at home, he was totally helpless. He was a happy person tho. Anyway, later on in the day my Mom said to me: "I guess this is God's birthday gift to me that I know he is all right now."

Just thought I would share that. I wish I could have the strenght of my Mom.