All of you are whacked! Totally and utterly whacked.
How could a topic about Board Etiquette stem down to only ONE PERSON?
My children are not being abused. Yes they do experience some arugumentive confrontation between my wife and I. I have learned to deal with her better. Before I would scream back at her and call her a very bad name. Because I truly believe she is crazy.
With all that said, and amongst other things. You people have no life. How I have been the topic of conversation continualy is beyond me.
Forrest. You were asked not to post to me, and since some posters asked for me to link my threads you went ahead and did it. Why because you are fascinated by what I have to say. The reason you got backlash is because I asked you not to post to me, and you went ahead and did it anyway. And Forrest, you don't like me. But you sure follow me around. You even trying to get invited in FB. You are infatuated with me. The difference is I don't like you, and I know that hurts you. I don't want your 50 bucks. I don't need a db coach. I need someone to give her a shot of Clopixol or something, perferably on an morphine type drip. I think she needs to seek help. Her uncle is Manic. I believe her Mother is Manic. She needs diagnosed. But how do you do that?
You people are all a bunch of know it alls. I think Jeanette said it best. My world has been turned upside down. My wife is my life. I only wish I could have showed her that before she decided to leave. The point is, I didn't know how to handle her. Because she was Manic or something?
I don't care what the pschologist label it. Depression, MLC, post partum, bipolar or whatever. It all has the same symptoms.
I get the same story from her uncle of how his SIL acted that way. My wife acts the same way. My FIL dealt with an abnoxious vexatious wife for years. My wife is the same as her mother. I have seen the rage. Her mother acts the same way. She had a good teacher. Now the bad part is we have a validating pig girl not helping the situation. Then we have her sister filling her head with BS.
I am a real person. The kids are incredibly healthy. My friends in real life come over to visit and state how well they look.
There were some discipline prolems. They wouldn't listen to her. I fixed that on my side. I almost never have to raise my voice with them. I ask them once and they do it. Even tongight when she came after work to pick up D. She called for him at least ten times for him to come see her. She wanted to know if he wanted to go with her. I said his name once, and told him to come to the living room, and I heard pitter pattering feet.
I looked at her and said. They listen to me. With her she would scream at them twenty times to do something. They still wouldn't do it. Then when she called me into action. She would make me look like the bad guy.
Really I find it absolutely amazing that the message on board etiquette was about me. You people have the inablity to read. What you should have down is interpreted it properly.
This is my safe haven. This is my thread. If you come here and rulle me up, be prepared. Because I do not waiver. The funny part is that people starting coming out of the wood work. People responding to just the post present and take things out of context.
The last post. There were people quoting others on things I didn't even say. With snipits and junkie nonsense talk.
Now part of the etiquette thing I disagree with is the religous view. Because it is God that we should be listening too. But we act on our own. Our own selfish behaviors. We failed in our marriages because both parties neither one of them acted like a true Christian or Godly type person.
Gandi said it best. A reporter asked him. Many of your values and principles are Christian like. Why are you not a Christian?
He said, show me one Christian that acts like a Christian.
Do we even act Christian towards one another even on this board?
James 3: 7 For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by the human species, 8 but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.
Amy that's a perfect verse for you and I.
When someone is down you don't whack them. You build them up.
Ephesians 4:31 All bitterness, fury, anger, shouting, and reviling must be removed from you, along with all malice. 32 (And) be kind to one another, compassionate, forgiving one another as God has forgiven you in Christ.
Ephesians Chapter 5
1 So be imitators of God, 1 as beloved children, 2 and live in love, as Christ loved us and handed himself over for us as a sacrificial offering to God for a fragrant aroma. 3 Immorality or any impurity or greed must not even be mentioned among you, as is fitting among holy ones, 4 no obscenity or silly or suggestive talk, which is out of place, but instead, thanksgiving.
Now it appears I have put my family into more harm because your interpretations of the readings appear to be abusive to the children. You are wrong. You are not here. You haven't witnessed anything.
If you did witness anything. You would see a crazy MLC woman or something acting irrational.
I am the stable one. Somehow I had to fight it all out me. I was extremely overwhelmed. Online school full time. Working on this house, taking care of the kids every night. Getting hammered at work. Trying to pick up the pieces from a wife that left. Now becoming a mother and a father to these children.
Something else got my goat. She dropped the kids off her parents, because she doesn't trust them with me. That is absolute poppycock. She dropped them off at her parents because she wanted to go out and she didn't want me to know that she was going out.
Now is there someone else. I don't know. It could be the pig girl for all I know. This woman is a dedicated over protective mother that has entered the work force.
Even tonight she was yelling at me telling me to watch him when I was getting a hair cut. He was sitting right next to me. She is constantly afraid someone is going to take the kids.
Here is a mother that would never leave the childs side. Even in the front yard they had to be in view. A mother that never sees her children because she choose to leave and now works a freaky schedule.
Why would she dump the kids on her day off? Why would she rather be with someone else then be with her kids? She still tries to act like mother of the year, but she isn't.
Great I put my family in more danger. Life doesn't get any better, oh yeah!
My boss just notified today, that there may be no funding for me next year. So I might loose my job in the end of month.
My wife told me I was going to loose everything. Well it's starting because she is making it so.
If I loose my job, then I'm in jeopardy of loosing this house. A house I worked my a$$ off on. Remolded every single room. Put a 24x30 addition on. A new kitchen, another full bath. A giant deck. Etc... because its what she wanted, and DAM gave it.
It's all true... and now the woman doesn't love me anymore. Doesn't even want to speak to me.
I think I journal here to just hear the words. She is crazy LostPhil. She is crazy. She would wear a diaper and drive half way across the country, because that is the personality she has had.
I never knew how to deal with her.
You folks really have it all wrong...
Become more Christian.
She just texted me Good night... I think I'll go dark...
