WEll, As I told Coach the 8/22/08 Detached thread by sgctxok - has been an eye opener for me & I have ben reading it to engrain it in my head ;\) ..... I thought I was detached - but really I wasn't.

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Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)