W pregnant with OM's child.......

[yenko69]

I have been reading most of your situations. I agree that holding a grudge is not the answer. It just eats you up inside.

I also would not read to much into a hug. Me and my W messed around last week and now it is back to seeing OM. It does hurt a whole lot, but I was more skeptical last week then I was in the past.

I hope your wife will come around and that you are able to raise a child that is not your "own". I have done the same with two of them that are from a previous marriage. It is a hard thing to do sometimes.

You sound like a great guy and hopefully your W will see it and the changes that you made. Sometimes the path that will make you a better person is one that may not feel right, but is the right thing to do.