123, I just want to offer my opinion here. Your H sounds VERY depressed. Men tend to express their D with anger, not sadness. One of the things that lead to the complete distruction of my M was tht while my H was going through D, we were also trying to work on us. The pressure became too much for him and he had felt like a failure. I have since had a IC tell me that as long as a spouce is in a D, the only work that should be done it getting them out of the D. The M needs to wait until they are strong enough to actually shoulder some of the burden. As lond as they are depressed, the are too broken to fix anything. Just my 0.02 worth.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
