It does seem harder that she does not really care who knows. Yesterday I stuck to my guns about the separate accounts.
M: Can you have D11 get her stuff ready befoe I get there tonight, thanks. W: Yeah, how much money do I need to put in your account.? M: Got to look, let you know tonight.
When I got there she was pretty down and defeated about things. She said that she did not have enough money to pay bills. Not real sure what was going through her mind.
Kept D11 last night and she said something about doing something tonight. Said that she was sorry and did not want to make me mad. I told her I was not mad at her and not to worry about it. Poor kid is caught up and can't do a thing about it. I can't either since she is a SD. At least me and SD 11 had a good night last night.
A warrior does not give up on what he loves, he finds the love in what he does