I agree. I've buried 3 parents (I was adopted), 2 sons who died before they were born, I've been stalked, and I've been divorced before because I left an abusive situation. But what I'm living with now is the worst of all. Pain is pain, and I would never compare mine with someone else's--but I can compare it to my own previous experience. And being cast aside "like a coat that no longer fits" (H's apt phrase), rejected and betrayed is its own particular kind of death. And watching my D being devastated and knowing there's really nothing I can do about it adds to the pain I'm feeling.
Sorry--I've wandered far off the topic of movies.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012