I am so amazed at the strength you showed in writing that letter. I am speechless. I would love to be able to do that. wow. although scary it must of been empowering.
I know in my situation I was the one that had the A and my H moved out but we did a 180 turn and he will not come back. I would so love to be able to say enough and write a letter like that. At the moment H has best of both worlds. He knows i am available anytime and he lives outside of the home. Wrong to let him i know but I am so scared of losing him altogether !!!