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Hi BH!

I saw all the positives. (Maybe that didn't come across in my post)...Yes is was nice that W came over to comfort S8. It was nice that we BOTH got to do it. She is also leaning to more to the "Suck it up" side.....We will meet in the middle.

The only thing that sucks for me is not "getting it out of my head!". Last night I had too many thoughts going on....


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Originally Posted By: Ready2Change
The only thing that sucks for me is not "getting it out of my head!". Last night I had too many thoughts going on....


That happens to me as well.....right now in fact. Its all of those insecurities trying to take hold and it brings me down sometimes. I just try and post when ever it happens and hope some kind soul (like you have been) will offer me up a dose of hope.

I am glad that you could see the positive in the sitch. Good job grasshopper....:)

Anything fun planned for your weekend?


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My parenting time with kids start at 10AM Sat! Soccer practices. I have W bringing the bikes. Need to go shopping (as family!)...


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Hey Ready.. thanks for the call. Talked to our buddy and she's doing well.

What a grapevine we have!

The lawyers had a status conference today where they didn't even see a judge and had inconclusive results. That probably means neither one liked what the other proposed. We'll see where it goes.

Have a great weekend with your kids!

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Originally Posted By: Gypsy
Hey Ready.. thanks for the call. Talked to our buddy and she's doing well.


Thanks for the update. I was worried....

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The lawyers had a status conference today where they didn't even see a judge and had inconclusive results. That probably means neither one liked what the other proposed. We'll see where it goes.
They reviewed how much money you have, decided how much to take before settling....

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Have a great weekend with your kids!
I plan on it! You have a wonderful weekend too!


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((((((Ready))))))) Things are better. Thanks so much.

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Have an awesome time with your kids. You're a wonderful dad, they're lucky to have you !


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Kids outside riding bikes right now. Quickly poped to BB to say hi!

Glad things are better.

*HUGS*


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Hey Ready..

Hope you're tuckered out from playing with the kids and sleeping soundly. I'm off to snooze myself.

Enjoy your lil pumpkins.

*hugs*

PS.. let me know how the old Buddhist monk trick goes.

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Holly COW!!!!

I am caught up in life! I made it through all the mail and got all the bills paid (a couple are late).

I had a good weekend with the kids. No one controlling what we did but us! We road our bikes down to the middle school and the boys road around the track while D6 and I laid in the sun! It is SOOO much more relaxing. We can just be a family without have to run and do 50 things.....


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Ready, sounds like a wonderful weekend. Enjoy these moment because the kids will grow up all too soon and then there will only be memories. You are such a great dad! Wish alot of the WAH could get some tips from you. ;\)


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