I hope its 6 months...but the more things I find like the ILY emails and probably txt msgs its hard to believe that, then with them practically living together. I don't know....
I guess the part I have on my side is that they also work together then go to lunch almost every day then see each other after work and to me that gets old fast plus it becomes a routine and the chasing of each other is over which is what my H says he likes the most.
I know what you mean T2L about seeing him. I saw my H this morning because he dropped off his son's bike since his son still goes to school by my house and its so hard to look at them and then get nervous talking to them because for me I don't want to say the wrong thing.
Then I have all my family and friends telling me to just move on, let go, and he isn't worth it for cheating (especially twice) and that he will do it again. But I want to believe otherwise. I love him then hate him then love him. Its like this tug of war between your inner self. The hardest is being patient especially since it just started for you and me! Six months is until February of next year!!!!!!!!
I'm trying to hold on but I feel like I'm slipping.
Me35/H35 D16/SS14 M-1yr/known H 18yrs 1st Bomb: 4/26 OW35 2nd Bomb: 8/17 OW21 Moved out 8/21/08 H filed D on 9/9/08
God determines who walks into your life...it's up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.
