Both yoga and swimming. I'm planning on taking yoga, cycling, some other classes and get on the treadmill. So I'll still need the shoes. Unfortunately the swimming is at the local High School since the new Y doesn't have a pool yet and I can't let D swim on her own while I do laps.
Nope, he's going to blow it off again. He just asked me, what, an hour or so ago?? Now when I said what time and where, he replies "we'll see, I'll let you know". Whatever dude!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I'm pretty good, thanks! I actually let D spend the night at H's place. I was a wreck and hated him for even asking me, but it turned out well and she was fine. I had a good talk with H yesterday when he brought her home and feel that I can leave him be for now. He said that he's going to talk to someone, a shrink (he's never wanted to before!), to see why he's like this and why he's so angry all the time. Said all he wants to do it work to keep busy and forget things and then go and sleep (depression?). I asked him if he plans on working on us and he said "probably most definately", so now I'm good. He needs to work this out. I can't focus on if there's really a OW involved or not. SHe's not my problem or concern. SHe's only my concern when it comes to D and that's it.
At least he is going to talk with someone. It is a start and that is good.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I think I posted on my thread yesterday about a pastor preaching about divorce on tv yesterday.
He referenced a Bible verse: Proverbs 12:15
"The way of a fool is right in his own eyes but he that hearkeneth unto counsel is wise."
How timely is this????
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
It is an eye opener when certain thoughts/words entertain your mind and then something comes right at you and it is certainly a sign from God--I really believe that.
Honestly, the other day, all I kept thinking about is what if I go ahead and file for a D..........
Then yesterday, that sermon and I cried and cried. In my heart, I know that is NOT the thing for me to do or to even consider.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
