Hi, Phil. I have never posted to you though I have read some (not all) of your sitch. I am not here to bash you or anything even remotely close to that.

Just wondering if you could please answer Barbie's question:

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How can you expect anyone to be respectful to you when you are not respectful to them?


If you could honestly answer that question, you might possibly give me (and others) some insight into my H's mind and why he acts/behaves the way that he does. I would greatly appreciate it and thanks for your time. If not, no worries.

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell