Now that you know, does she still want it? She may be feeling quite humilated and that she still needs to do this even if you reassured her that you'd forgive her. I'm curious....
If you decide to ask her about this, I'd do it in a sort of "matter of fact," but very kind, non-pursuing manner. If she says she still wants to go through with this, just keep DBing and do everything as slowly as possible.... tell her nicely, "Okay, I'll get this signed, but first I need to show it to my attorney...." Then you go as slowly as you possibly can. Tell your attorney you want it sloooooow.
On the plus side, not too many guys want to date a pregnant woman (except maybe a child molester), on the other hand you have a hormonal woman and that could work against you.
Keep DBing!!! I think there's a chance. Hang in there...
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
