yes he did say the door was open but some time ago he told me that he couldn't come home and he didn't see that happening. But then again they all say that don't they?
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Of course that's what he will say! And, right now, he means it. Don't let yourself get caught up in that speculation and worry, that's what leads to pursuing actions, and you know where that will get you!
They do all say that. When he said that, you weren't giving him any reason to think his life at home would be any different if he returned.
Things have finally clicked for you. You are working on lasting changes that make you a stronger person. One that is more attractive. No one can promise he will come home, but there is no doubt in anyone's mind that he does love you. MHO, I think he will rethink things a little ways down the road, once he sees things sticking, becoming good habits.
Hi Jeff...the last time he said that was about 3 months ago. I've come a long way since then.
He has on a number of ocassions said some reasons why we got divorced. I don't argue with him about them because even though some are right some are also his truth. I let him be right while proving him wrong
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Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Hi Amy...I think that many things have clicked for me. I hope that they continue to too because I still have a long way to go.
I know he loves me he just got fed up and didn't want to stay in our M. There is still a chance and I hang onto the hope that one day he will want to move back.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Crap crap! I thought for sure I had an appointment today at 2:30 and it turns out it was for yesterday! She said she was wondering why I hadn't called her! I had myself convinced that it was today and sure enough when I looked in my agenda it was yesterday the 4th. I can't believe this. She said to call and see if they're willing to work something out....Gosh I hope so.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Im still standin better than I ever did looking like a true survivor feeling like a little kid Im still standin after all this time and Im picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind..
