Remember what we discussed once about people being better parents if they take more time for themselves. Your H 's LL is physical contact his need is for you. Yes it is sex but I feel it's emotional connection for him too. He just needs to learn to meet yours also. Have you told him these in black and white?
Talk Later Jak
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