(((H4H))) Of course shes not sure, shes mixed up and saying she wants to get settled in is another way to say - "I want to stop feeling bad about the way I'm acting." I think she thought moving out would make her guilt go away and it hasn't. I would talk to her too.
How do YOU guys picture the talk? What needs to be said to her that hasn't really been said before?
Because I post so much, ya'll have as much insight into her as I do. Maybe better because I'm too close to it.
To me, she is just gone. That's why I keep going where I go. Too tired of hurting.
Away.
I think it could go either way. But you should have zero expectations.
You sound kind of up and down lately, I'm sure we all do, but you are maybe a little too up and down? I think you have to kind of go on living your life, with as much GALing as you can fit in (as you've reminded me lately ) and trying to enjoy your life and kids as much as possible. I'm surprisingly happy even though I guess this may be one of the tougher parts of my life right now. I think you need to work on being happy and peaceful by yourself without W or an X, Y, or Z. Did you do the goal setting and how are you doing with your goals btw? And did you put in some fun goals? I put in like do something fun just for me each day as one of my goals. Karen
) and trying to enjoy your life and kids as much as possible. I'm surprisingly happy even though I guess this may be one of the tougher parts of my life right now. I think you need to work on being happy and peaceful by yourself without W or an X, Y, or Z. 
