Thanks Theoden!!! I mean I think about this too. Even if my H came back today and said let's try again, it would be very scary and he would have to show me that he has had some growth and more of a committment to the M or it wouldn't work out. And I don't think that will happen and I've gotten used to the idea.
Now I'm more DBing for myself and my kids and when the divorce is over I think I will be fine. You kind of gave me that advice at the beginning here, and I was like no way I can't live without H, but I'm getting better at it I think. Karen
Karen