h4h, she is NOT SURE. Her saying she wants to get settled in is like saying she is going to "try this OM life out". If you want to save your marriage, I would recommend you having a talk with her alone about this.
That's the whole reason for her moving out in the first place, isn't it? That's basically what she told me towards the end.
I will consider having the talk. I have said that I'm not going to badger her. I've given it to her, I have asked if she read it and now she has responded. Whether she really read it or not, remains to be seen. I just have to take her on her word, which doesn't carry much weight anymore.
I just plan on going where I go. Tonight, I want to go back to the first live music place. Roxy's. I might be going it alone. No calls or invites so far for the weekend. I just want to enjoy myself. Just be OUT. With who makes no difference, as long as I'm out enjoying. Even alone. Not looking for anything other than being out and listening to some music.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
