Dar you are in control. If he announces 15 min before and you have plans simply say sorry h I have plans today. That way you are not waiting, hoping that he will call.

Remember Dar you have a life too.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"