The plan we agreed to is every weekend. He sees D every Wed from about 4:30 - 7:30 and then on Saturdays from Noon - 4:30. When he hasn't called in the past, I have always made plans. Always. Because I know it upsets D that he doesn't show up. However, when he calls like that then I'm the bad guy for making other plans. I don't get it! He left me and hasn't reconciled since but I'm supposed to still be waiting??? That's how he acts anyway.
