It must be all of that Texas air turning our men crazy. They say 6 months from the start -- we can only hope. My H's OW is only 2 years younger than me but had plastic surgery on her face, butt and of course boobs. She looks like a barbie doll. At least everything I have is all original miles! lol. The good part of this is that I have lost about 20 pounds (I walk the beach almost every night about 4 miles), I need to lose about 50 more (well maybe 40), but I am growing out my hair, buying some new clothes and everyone has noticed but him. (or he is not saying). Your H is angry at you because he is really mad at himself. I read this thing about being "double minded"...You go to a counselor or priest with your problem and you have your own agenda, when they tell you the right thing -- you change it to fit your own needs and know it is still wrong and it causes great discontentment within our own soul. It is a battle and emotional breakdown. Thatis what he is experiencing. Deep down he knows he is wrong but only wants to blame you. Eventually he will have only one person to blame himself. take care. k
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09