Good thing the cel phone broke - now you can't text her so much you get charged with harrassment. Let it go. And stop calling her. She can't breathe. You are there. You lose it with her. Blame the kids. How can you blame a kid for wanting something. What he wants and NEEDS is love and attention. From both of you. He needs parents. Who behave like adults.
If you know we are right - why are you so mean to us? Why are you so mean to her? How can you expect anyone to be respectful to you when you are not respectful to them?
I told my ex when he first left that respect needs to be earned. (he was upset that the kids no longer respected him) and he agreed! For once!
I have always lived by the rule that we should treat others the way we wish to be treated. You are screaming for how you wish to be treated. So do the same for your wife. And your kids. And for the other posters here.
And theology is a different subject. This is divorce busting. Do you want to bust your divorce or not?
