To frank....hang in. Stop the analysis. Too much analysis of her day to day actions. You're gonna kill yourself. We'll know your detaching when you talk about your next computer project. It's quite obvious that...down deep...you are looking for and praying for that epiphany. I empathize with you. Let it go for now. I have the same weakness. It's not easy..but you must.
Oh yeah, it is crazy. I'm really not reading anything into it any more. I am so focused on work and kids right now. And I'm learning to be grateful for the fact that I see my kids every day and interact with them.
W is more of a 'distraction' than anything else. I'm kind of doing like you, when she's acting 'nice' I'm nice. When she's acting poopy I avoid her.
She cycles a lot of course, like they all do.
This morning she came to pick up D13 for school. She came in the house early instead of at pickup time. Then she starts making a lunch for D13, feeds the dogs, the birds and other morning chores that I usually do but hadn't done yet (D13 and I just got up)
I was going to say something but why bother? Maybe next time I'll tell her to just stop. It seems petty and it's clear she misses her routines.
