I guess none of us are working today! I am on lunch though. It is central time in Texas. don't be a faker -- make yourself feel empowered then it won't be a lie. It is very difficult for me here because all of my family is on the east coast. I can't talk to anyone from work because we know all the same people. I actually had to run a meeting last week with my H there and the OW. Try that for 3 hours. I wanted to punch her. I kept looking at her and wrote on my notebook to unnerve her. It could have been alot worse. My H came out of the meeting with a migraine. He cannot move in with the OW because she works for him. After 21 years of marriage he tells me I am not happy and we have been unhappy for 12 years. Then 2 weeks later he says we were never happy. I don't know how old your H is but this is normal when they have a full mid-life crisis. Most affairs do not go past 6 months. I am just praying that these techniques will not be too late. We did stop trying for some time but not that I would get hit with divorce. The problem is that he refuses to try at all. We are going to a Marriage Counselor seperately and he said he would keep an open mind but he just is pushing for a divorce. We meet together for the first time with the counselor. It is tough. I need to make reservations to go home for Christmas to see all the family and he is not coming. This will be horrible for our family. I can't believe this is happening either. Stay strong. I have some good days among the bad.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
