Cinco,

Just catching up on your sitch. Looks like things are going really well.

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Have we finally turned the corner?

Maybe? Possibly? Probably? If the answer was "Definitely" what would you now start doing differently? Think about it.

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From now on I won't settle for anything less. No more plain vanilla. There is no risk in losing her by insisting on passion in our SL. The risk is in ever letting that passion die. I will keep making her feel beautiful and sexy... because she is.

Keeping the passion burning in a marriage is a neverending journey of thought, effort and imagination. But it is a risk, because just as in life, there are no guarantees. Perhaps the trick is recognising that to not risk living with passion, is to not really live at all.

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Things between us have been so much better lately. Hugging, kissing, touching and talking so much more now. Making her the focus of my life love makes a huge difference too. I have come to realize that I really had neglected her for so long, what was I thinking by doing that?

It may seem a small point - but its not. I'm reminding myself just as much as you! DQ's most recent posts make the same point from a different persepective.

Have a great weekend.

S&A



"A man can be destroyed but not defeated" - from The Old Man and the Sea, by Ernest Hemingway.

Which I take to mean that every man has within him a spirit of relentlessness and optimism. Its already there; he just has to cultivate it.