"I am not sure I want to go that route right now."
h4h, she is NOT SURE. Her saying she wants to get settled in is like saying she is going to "try this OM life out". If you want to save your marriage, I would recommend you having a talk with her alone about this.
(((H4H))) Of course shes not sure, shes mixed up and saying she wants to get settled in is another way to say - "I want to stop feeling bad about the way I'm acting." I think she thought moving out would make her guilt go away and it hasn't. I would talk to her too.
You will know when you can't fight anymore. Only you know when you are done and its not up to anyone else to tell you when that time is. We are here for you no matter what you decide and we can only give you advice based on what you post here and our experience. For me personally, I warn you away from the alphabet girls because...Iam a girl and you are an easy target for the circling vultures. Just my humble opinion.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
