BC, I saw your new topic and went back and read thru your whole situation..what can I say I have an easy job.
I work nights, have a daughter who was 4 at the time wife left me for another man. Wife got pregnant and Mr Wonderful dumped her. I know what you are going thru and feel really bad for you.
I'll say this first, as I've read through your thead the major mistake you made was moving out. You've given excuse after excuse about why you couldnt do that or what how your wife would react. Move back in now! You can use the excuse of not wanting your wife to be alone or you know that money will be tight for her if she decideds to keep the child. But move back in right away!
I didnt post my story as it happened which I kind of regret looking back but I read away here and found alot good advice here. You cant rescue your wife here but think about your son. Your wife is in horrible shape mentally right now and your son needs you at home.
