Well..... no one asked The gift was a skull sand timer. Kinda cool - my house is decorated in a Halloween/scary mode normally. Uuuhhhmm - just so strange ......
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
I was reading your thread today! I'm almost up to date. It's a difficult challenge this trying to be friends business, especially when they are not receptive.
I can't believe you got that gift from your neighbour. THat is so sweet so long as he is not a weird stalker!! :-)
Yes, JCJ - This friends business is a challenge w/little communication. I was thinking today about riding out this new DB path I'm on. I wonder if this is a new path for my H as well? I don't believe he is 'friends' with anyone he has ever dated & his 1st M - well they became enemies. Myself - I haven't remained 'friends' with anyone I seriously dated either. Have remained friendly to some - but not friends. How about anyone else???
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
I haven't remained friends with any previous BFs or my 1st H either. Part of that is because we moved to different cities/countries. My 1st H is a friend on FB and I did send him a congrats wall post when his son was born. He's a great guy. My second serious R is also a friend on FB...another super guy.
I so want to be friends with xh. Hopefully one day.
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Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Well, not much new with me, no convertible this weekend, so it's been house projects. Yuck! I guess it's good - maybe my H will be more responsive w/OW/roommate gone. (If she truly is moving out & truly is/was his GF. Still don't really know on that one). Yes, I was tempted to drive by his house to see - but that was the old me. Just like when he said he was going to NE. Maybe he did maybe he really didn't - didn't check that either (which I did do last time he told me back in Dec. - before DB). I was thinking in July we had babysteps & in August it stalled, so maybe he was dealing w/this issue. So we shall see ......
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
MsMel, What's going on? Any news, last I heard you were going for drinks with a friend and then poof -where did she go?
Here's a joke to lure you back out.
What do you call a physic midget who just escaped from jail?
A small medium at large.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
The gift was a skull sand timer. Kinda cool - my house is decorated in a Halloween/scary mode normally. Uuuhhhmm - just so strange ......