T2L, Since I was whining about myself I never answered your question. Do not ignore him. Use your son's game as an opportunity for you to strut your stuff. Wipe away the tears, dress up, do your hair and make up. Carry your cell phone. When he looks at you pretend you are having this great conversation, laugh. Wave to him from a distance. See if he approaches you. Use this to see that you have moved on and are happy (or pretend to be). If you start to get overwhelmed go to a ladies room, have a good cry, wash your face and put those sunglasses on. Did you order the Divorce Busting books yet or speak to a telephone coach. My recommendation is get the books first. good luck. I will pray for you.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09