HI T2L, it is a tough road for us. I am trying to follow the DB techniques but it is so frustrating. My H sent me a few e-mails of furnished apartments he is looking at. Normally I would have blown up and blasted him but I sent him an e-mail saying I know of a beautiful 7 room house with 1 teenager and crazy dog that you could rent cheap - smile. He did not respond but I figured it would be better to try some humor. Now he calls me telling me about a furnished apt he drove by. I do not know why he thinks I am made of stone. I just said to him "well I am sure you will find something" Then I told him Ihad to go. He told me yesterday that he will move out temporarily 3 months and see how it is and then move forward with a divorce. He gave up drinking 20 years ago and every once in a while he has a drink but for the last 2 months he has drank at least 5/6 times with 2x being drunk. I don't know him but I have to keep trying. This is a full mid-life crisis but I hope he does not kill himself in the meantime. Let's keep the faith and keep praying. I am trying to GAL and keep my sanity. take care.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
