Listen to the others, they are giving you great advice!!! My ex threatened me with criminal charges b/c I got into his emails & found out about OW. He also threatened to take one of the dogs (he knew that would get to me) but I didn't let him see that. I called my L crying & saying he can't take my dog. L told me he would not get her. Anyway, when my ex would threaten me, I would just say, do what you have to do. Most of this time was before he knew I knew about OW, so he didn't know that I knew he was having an affair. He also threatened to file contested D, again I just said "do what you have to do", I knew he didn't want to go that route.
So, just say "do what you have to do" & that will let him know he is not going to intimidate you!
I promise, you have to look out for you!!! All my H wanted was money from the sale of the house so he could pretend to the OW that he had money.
