maybe i'm crazy, but I still want her to come back, for the right reasons of course (not because she's pregnant and alone)
will gladly raise the child as my own.......
You're not crazy. I try to put myself in your shoes, but I can't. I'd like to believe I'd feel the same way...and a child is innocent, but what if the child always reminded me of her unfaithfulness?
I think you are right..."if she came back for the right reasons". That would be the hardest part; actually knowing whether it was because she wanted you or because she didn't want to be alone. If the opportunity presents itself, don't jump with both feet....suggest you are open to the possibility, but she needs to work on herself to determine if it's because she loves you and wants the marriage to work. You deserve nothing less if you are to take on this responsibility.
You cannot be lonely if you like the person you're alone with. Dr. Wayne Dyer
