HELP!!

[mishka422]

RH - Breathe sweetie, breathe.........

I understand. You're spinning and feel totally out of control. In so many ways you are but you must get a trip on yourself right now before you spin out of control.

I have a couple of questions for you.

1)Why is it that you have to move out if he is the one that wants the D?

2)Is this a house you own together?

3)Have you consulted a L yet?

4)If he is cheating, is that a deal breaker for you? Would not ever be willing to forgive him if he eventually sees the errors of his ways?

5)How long are you willing to stand and fight for you M without getting any positive signs from him?

I know it's hard not to react to what he is saying. It's darned near impossible.

Everything you have said and done is almost verbatim what we have all said and done out of pain. It will get easier. I know it doesn't seem like it now, but it will. The hole in your very soul will slowly heal. It will be scarred forever but it will be a scar that will always remind you of the strength you gained through the struggle.

I'll check back in a little later to see what your answers were to the questions and then I might be able to give you a little more direction.

(((((((((((((((RH))))))))))))))