You are too close to the situation. Meaning you get dragged in, respond too emotionally, react to all that your h does.

When you step away and are not involved for now you will be more at peace with yourself and what is going on. Anything your h does will not affect you.

Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"