I dont think it will work out either. I even told him he was stupid for moving in with her right away. I asked what he was going to do when she got mad at him and assumed stuff again, and threw him out! He said he would have to deal with that when it happened.
He is trying to be all comforting to me this morning and Im not having it. He called to talk to the kids, but they didnt want to talk to him. My son did briefly, then hung up on him after saying he wasnt going to stay with him tonight because of the hurricane. So my H called back to say son hung up on him and he would call back in a few. I answered that next time. I was very short and to the point and said I had to go, he said wait, you cant talk to me for a minute....I told him that i didnt feel like talking to him this morning that I had to go and bye!
He texted and said he wanted to know what was wrong.
ah duh
then he asked if I would please talk to him when I was feeling better. Then wanted to know if I was mad at him.
I didnt answer.
He texted me when I got to work. To let me know he had to cover at the ems/fire tonight for the storm and wanted to know if he was going to have the kids or not.
I just texted him and said they would be with me.
He then said "ok and are you ok"
Are you still mad at me and not talking, came next.
Its not that Im mad....Im hurt, yet again.
Your right though, I do have MY house and MY kids. They love me and want to be with me.
Things have to change. I think now is the time for that to happen. He wont know what has hit him. He doesnt want to come home. He said it will never work. He said we cant have what was in the past and we can look forward to a friendly future.
I know we cant have what was in the past. Im tired of him treating me like a child and I feel like thats what he is doing.
I even told him that last night. Time for me to take a stand.
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
