Honey, you do not owe him answers right now so GO DARK. Don't text. Don't phone. Don't leave notes. Let him flap in the breeze - this is not the worst thing for him right now.
Good Morning Barbie,
Thank you. Your words are always spot on. Here is the most important advice I hear that I personally have control of, at the moment. I actually have been doing pretty good as of late with this one -- that is, up until yesterday. But, I felt a desperate need to diffuse the situation there, and I think/hope I did, at least for a now.
I did end up breaking my own "darkness" last night and called him three times, but that was just to see how he was.
But Poet, that pretty much defeats the entire purpose of "going dark." NOT "just seeing how he is" is the whole point!!!You wanted a 2x4? There ya go. Consider yourself walloped.
