Poet: I just read your most recent post to me and can't believe my eyes. You couldn't stay dark so you called him 3 times???? WTF??? This isn't even DIM! Just to see how he was??? Girl - GET A LIFE!!! WITHOUT HIM IN IT!!! You wanted to offer him the newspaper and his breakfast? Are you a doormat??? He has you right where he wants you. This is NOT how it works.

Remember this - it is human nature to want what you CAN'T have. but he HAS you - right where he wants you - you are his BECK AND CALL GIRL. Yes I said "CALL GIRL".

OK - those are my 2 x 4s and they are not pretty. But TRUST ME on this. YOu are not dark or even close. STOP IT. You can't bounce back and forth between dark and not dark. It becomes a joke. YOU GO DARK AND YOU STAY DARK. Now tough up and do it.

Barb