I think that control freaks don't like it when their partners actually turn out to be individuals. Makes things a bit of a mess, I think. Because you have to be an individual, they have to figure out how to adjust to that. In the meantime, they get really angry!
Good Morning Handsome,
Thank God you finally found me. I've been praying for your to come visit. I am afaid my situation is now too far gone for any saving. I hope this is not so. So, here is my question for you:
Regarding the quote above -- how do I/what can I do or not do to help allueviate the situation. How can I help him *get over* his anger, or at least calm him down. This is so important to me, and it has been since I joined these boards. I really need to learn this aspect of DBing. Can you offer any advice?
