I just wanted to lend my support for your chosen path. I admit there is no way I could do what your doing. The anger, resentment and just plain old spite would never let me be as supportive or forgiving of her as you are. I don't honestly know if it is the right thing your doing but that is your decsion and b/c of that I support you.
Take care of you first! You have to survive this in the end no matter what the outcome. Remember that.
Be well,
Vorlon
M: 50, W: 48 M: 26 yrs S:25, D:24, S:20, D:19 Hard at work on my marriage everyday! There is hope, there is life, it is the only life we have....